Hi, I’m Nichole Stockton Your Modern Love and Life Mentor

If you’ve ever felt like dating after 40 is sucking the life right out of you, you are not alone. That’s why I am here. My mission is simple: to help women like you move through life, love, dating and self-discovery with clarity, confidence, and connection. Love yourself first and watch the rest follow.

Inside you’ll learn:

  • How to date smarter (without the drama).
  • What neuroscience teaches us about attraction, communication, and behavior.
  • How to recognize red flags and embrace green ones.
  • Why self-care is the foundation for a healthy love.
  • How to feel empowered in your style, mindset, and relationships.

Why Me?

I bring over 15+ years of professional leadership and people management experience-guiding, supporting, and problem-solving with thousands of individuals over the years. More importantly, I bring real-life perspective

I’ve lived through short and long-term relationships (currently dating a man 20 years younger), breakups, new beginnings, and the challenges (plus joys) of dating. I’ve been through domestic violence and the manipulation involved. My Sun sign is a Libra which shows through in my need for harmony, love, and communication. I am also a recovering heroin addict since May 18, 2018. The phrase “Take one day at a time,” is very important, especially for an addict. I’ve experienced poverty (homeless and sleeping in my truck) to glow-ups. I became diagnosed with Crohn’s Disease in 2010. Spending the next 2 years in and out of the hospitals, finding anything that could help; miraculously I got pregnant, and had my daughter in 2012. Along the way, I developed a passion for understanding people-especially men-through the lens of human behavior, psychology, and neuroscience.

I’m also extremely passionate about self-expression: from skincare routines, women’s clothing and accessories, hair, and even voice. Because when you feel good in your own skin, you naturally attract better energy in love and life.

Unedited Picture, This is the real me

Nichole Stockton

Author, Modern Love and Life Mentor

Ready to Date Smarter, Not Harder?

Get the clarity, confidence and connection from the right partner that aligns with your values and respects your journey.

The Heart of My Work.

I believe every woman deserves to:

  • Feel confident in who she is (with or without a partner).
  • Set boundaries without guilt.
  • Recognize when love feels safe, kind, and exciting.
  • Step into dating with clarity instead of confusion.

My approach blends science, empathy, humor, and real-life experiences. I’ll give you the tools to spot the difference between a time-waster and a keeper-while helping you show up as the best version of yourself.

Let’s Do This Together

If you’re ready to skip the games and build real connections, start my free 7-Step Relationship Clarity Checklist. It’s designed to help you identify what you really want in love (and what you don’t).

Frome there, you can join me in a 1:1 Clarity Call. or dive deep into ongoing mentorship through my Monthly Back Pocket Love Membership.

Because love after 40 isn’t about settling down-it’s about leveling up!